Apples Don’t Fall Too Far

The funny thing about history is that it tends to repeat itself. That is not only in the history books, but also in our personal life’s. Too often we end up repeating our parents mistakes. If there has been a family history of abuse, too often the children of the abuser end up in similar relationships later in their life. But it does not even need to go that far. Often we end up damaging perfectly good relationships unconsciously by repeating the model we learned from our parents.

Don’t get me wrong, there are people who were brought up in a perfectly happy families. But it can be even the smallest things from our past that we pick up and amplify in our own future relation ships.

But it does not have to be like this. We are allowed to learn from the mistakes of from the past. We are allowed to change our behaviour. We are allowed to have a healthy relationship, no matter what was in the past. But it is up to us to change those behaviours, no one else. The first step is to recognise them.

And that is what this weeks song is all about. My mind does take me to strange places sometimes when I am writing songs 😉 You can download this weeks song from my Bandcamp page HERE. You name your own price, and if money is tight, just put $0.00 in the price and you are good to go. Also please share this post. You guys rock!

J.P.

The author J.P. Kallio is a Singer-songwriter and a daily vlogger
To get EIGHT of his songs for free go HERE